merry christmas.

the title?  well, that relates to the number of page views i had today.   i think that must be the most ever on a single day.   i guess that is my present from the "web".  :)   honestly, it is nice to know that my words are at least being seen.  are they having an impact?  well, i can only speak for myself but they do help me to put words to "paper".   so, to my "viewers"i say thank you.

holidays are a tough time of the year.   at least for me.   it makes me miss people who are no longer in my life.  i miss them but i also remember how important they were in my life.   and, that always leads me back to the idea of making the most out of my time with people in my life.   and, i have to tell ya that is always a good idea.

that is my wish for everyone, to get the most out of their relationships with the people in their lives.   and, to also be looking to make new relationships with people.

that thought make me smile.  and, now i want to change my take on holidays.   they are tough and rewarding.  yeah, that is makes more sense.   tough is fine.  we grow from situations that are not easy.   i mean we all have heard the phrase, "no pain no gain".    i have been through all this before, so i won't repeat it as a christmas gift to all my "followers"

reflection is wonderful.   but, it can cause stagnation.   we all need to remember what we had, where we were, who was with us, and how we got from there to here.     (not to sure on this idea's path)

so, let me live you with this.   tell people you care about that you care about them, simple as that.

oh, and don't do a blanket text message.   at least put the person's name in the damn message.   baby jesus would want you to.  :)


merry christmas.   oh, and i can ask one thing?   if you read this, can you just leave a comment, as simple as your name.   consider it a christmas gift.


-TFFjr